Sales and Cigars | Nate Tutas | How to Think Differently About Sales | Episode 165
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Sales and Cigars | Nate Tutas | How to Think Differently About Sales | Episode 165

Have ever struggled to find a way to motivate a salesperson, team member, or teenager to do something that is clearly in their best interest? This episode is for you.

If you want to add to your toolbox on topics, Nate shares ideas you can use including: alignment of your values and behaviors, the 9 base motives that drive humans to change, or understanding why Andrew Carnegie paid Charles Schwab over $1M a year in the early 1900s - the next 30 minutes will help!

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[00:00:00] Hey everyone, Walter Crosby with Helix Sales Development, your host of Sales and Cigars. Today's

[00:00:04] episode is think different about sales with my buddy Nate Tutis and really excited to

[00:00:09] share this episode with you. It's actually going to go in the Helix Sales Academy. It

[00:00:14] is a great training piece. So if you're a business owner or a sales manager who's struggling

[00:00:21] to get those folks on your team to elevate and the ones that are pushing back to think

[00:00:27] they're doing fine and the ones that, that it's just are dragging things down a little bit

[00:00:33] and you're not sure you got all the tools in your toolbox to be able to get them over the hump

[00:00:38] and motivate them to do what they need to do. This episode is for you. We talk about aligning

[00:00:42] those values and continuous learning and how to get somebody to understand how they raise their

[00:00:49] own salary. And we talk a little bit about Andrew Carnegie and Napoleon Hill and those

[00:00:57] 17 laws that really get people to motivate. So go grab a cigar, grab a cocktail, strap in for

[00:01:04] this impactful episode of Sales and Cigar.

[00:01:27] So Nate, welcome back to the podcast. Appreciate you taking some time.

[00:01:34] Yeah, thank you. Always happy to be here. This is one of the,

[00:01:39] one of the special episodes that I do that people get kind of jacked up about when they see

[00:01:47] us going to talk about sales and getting your perspective on things. So

[00:01:54] I appreciate that. You're more popular. I mean, we're not, we're not, we're not Joe Rogan. We don't have

[00:02:02] three hours of nonsense and millions of viewers but

[00:02:05] And a couple of million dollar contract with Spotify.

[00:02:09] Yeah, I don't have that. Um, I'm not, I'm not still not looking for that but

[00:02:16] anyway. Um, so we're done talking about Barberine and getting your haircut and how we do

[00:02:22] all that. So let's dive into this concept. It's come up a couple of times for me in the last few

[00:02:28] weeks. Um, when we had one of our sessions last week, we, we chatted a little bit about it off

[00:02:34] there but the, I'll set it up this way. I've had some people that I, that I know that listen to

[00:02:41] the podcast and that are in a similar space um, or managing people and they, they're struggling with

[00:02:51] this idea that some of their salespeople are, are doing fine in their mind and as a manager

[00:03:04] or a leader they realize that these people could do better. If they just kind of tweaked it, I'm not

[00:03:14] saying completely revamp and upset the apple cart but just kind of made a few minor changes

[00:03:21] that would really elevate their, their game and cause them to become more effective. Um, so

[00:03:30] you know we talked about helping them see one that could make more money to that they would,

[00:03:36] they're always bitching about time but I have enough time and that if they did some things differently

[00:03:42] that they would make more money and save time but where, where the rub was and this is where I'm

[00:03:49] interested in your perspective is that they don't seem to acknowledge that there is an upside

[00:03:56] that, that it is worth the trouble and not that it's trouble but it's, it's, there's some discomfort

[00:04:05] for them um and you know you've coach salespeople you manage sales teams here, you have this

[00:04:14] high level mastery training um in neuro linguistics programming so I'm interested in your opinion on

[00:04:24] you know how to smack somebody in the back of the head proverbably and get them to realize that

[00:04:31] that there's a, there's a, on the other side of a little bit of change that there's some

[00:04:36] there's some really beautiful views and wonderful situations and kind of like I kind of teed it

[00:04:45] up like that so what are your thoughts? Um well a couple of initial thoughts that, that come

[00:04:51] into play and one I think is missed by most companies in my experience. It's missed by a lot

[00:04:59] of managers it's missed by just a lot of people in general and it's alignment on goals and values

[00:05:05] right so if, if one of the values of the company is continuous and never-ending improvement can I

[00:05:12] as Tony Robbins has kind of coined it um if that's a value then that has to be shown throughout

[00:05:20] the company that has to be shown from leadership you know all the way down as, as Jaco would refer

[00:05:25] to you got extreme ownership and taking ownership of I have to show that myself so is the highest

[00:05:30] level leader in the company portraying that value and then are they making sure that the leaders

[00:05:36] underneath them are also portraying and modeling that behavior so that everybody underneath them kind

[00:05:42] of knows that that is the case if that's not a value that's valued within the company it might

[00:05:48] be valued by an individual leader who then has to build that into their team right because that's

[00:05:54] something they value within their team but if that's not something that's necessarily laid out as a

[00:05:59] foundational element as part of the program and then someone gets to a point and you just bring it

[00:06:06] up and you're like hey we need to have you grow we need to have you develop like you're stagnating

[00:06:10] what have you then it's kind of one of those things where the person's like well I didn't

[00:06:14] I didn't agree to that like I never that wasn't something that you've laid out since the beginning

[00:06:20] I know from the situation you and I were talking about that's something that you actually share with

[00:06:24] the people you coach that that's an expectation but again if it's if it's a company culture that

[00:06:31] you're also working against that then becomes troublesome because they look at everybody else around

[00:06:37] them and go and well that person isn't having to push themselves that person isn't having to push

[00:06:40] themselves we all tune into our own radio station w i f m what's in it for me why the hell do I want

[00:06:47] to hold up w i f a n w i f m w i f m got it okay do you never heard of that one before I have not

[00:06:59] this is a I think Ziggler originated that that we all tune into our own radio station w i f m what's

[00:07:06] in it for me my dad taught me that one when I was he's been sharing that one with me since I was a kid

[00:07:11] interesting um that's a that's good but I think you bring up a valid point because the conversations

[00:07:18] I was having with some colleagues is that they are trying to and it is something that I try to

[00:07:27] instill but I think that's a really valid a really strong point that when we run into this we have

[00:07:36] we have to build this back to accompany culture and if that's lacking then we have to really build

[00:07:43] that into the team or help help them see how it is happening within the organization um so one

[00:07:52] one of the situations I was I was thinking about was that they you know there's a there's a lot

[00:07:57] of change going on in an organization where they're trying to improve the operations department

[00:08:02] they're they're doing training they're improving their safety um their safety training they're

[00:08:08] bringing the right people in to do the jobs they bring in a more supervision um so there is change

[00:08:15] happening in in organizations and sometimes we just have to connect it right and as that leader

[00:08:24] of that department we need to be able to help them help those individuals who have an acknowledge

[00:08:30] that they need to to make some changes that it's happening over here it's incumbent upon us to

[00:08:38] keep elevated our game that's a great that's a great point and I think that helps out

[00:08:44] several of the folks that I had talked to during during the past couple of weeks I love it

[00:08:50] and it's simple um and you know turning having more than one radio station to listen to to to

[00:08:57] continue your your analogy um is important yeah spinning around the dial well and that's um

[00:09:06] so I actually I pulled up a something on my screen here because I wanted to I wanted to reference it

[00:09:11] and make sure that I got it right but um I've been reading through and I've I've referenced this with

[00:09:16] you a couple of times I've been reading through the book how to raise your own salary which if anybody

[00:09:21] is familiar with uh thinking grow rich which many people are um how to raise your own salary is

[00:09:28] actually the transcripts of the conversation between Andrew Carnegie and Napoleon Hill when

[00:09:35] Andrew Carnegie actually laid out the 17 laws of success for Napoleon Hill and kind of tasked him

[00:09:40] with turning that into a success philosophy that could be shared with the world which is what ended

[00:09:44] up being thinking grow rich and one of the things that Carnegie uh points out through through the

[00:09:52] the transcripts and the dialogue between him and Napoleon Hill is that one of one of the 17 laws

[00:09:57] that many of us are aware of is going the extra mile and he points out that there's a reason that

[00:10:03] there's very select few and it was kind of interesting when I was reading it because I'm going he is

[00:10:07] describing the challenges that occur in a workplace from back in the 1900s and it's the exact same

[00:10:15] challenges that we have today it's the people that are in the workplace that are like hey I'm here

[00:10:20] I show up on time I do my job why am I not being paid more why am I not making a million bucks yet

[00:10:26] and it's like you can't just do the normal level of activity and expect massive rewards right

[00:10:33] Carnegie back you get and you're just going to be disappointed yes exactly um but Carnegie pointed out

[00:10:41] how he had a number of men that worked for him um in the early 1900s that he was paying get this

[00:10:47] this is early 1900s over a million dollars a year um Charlie Schwab was one of those individuals

[00:10:53] that he paid his his regular salary but then because he went the extra mile he paid him um over a

[00:11:00] million dollars a year in bonuses for that going the extra mile and one of the things that he pointed

[00:11:06] out that Charlie Schwab was a master at was getting the most out of people and it was because he would

[00:11:12] always find a way to link one to three of the prime um base motives that that exists out there

[00:11:22] and uh the motives this is what I was bringing up on my screen so I could actually uh reference them

[00:11:28] the the nine base motives are the emotion of love um the emotion of sex or as they refer to as um

[00:11:36] sex mutation mutating that that drive into something else to to get something from it

[00:11:42] um the desire of monetary gain which it's interesting because Carnegie points out that many people

[00:11:49] are driven by monetary gain but only to a certain point and he goes and that's why you have to figure

[00:11:53] out which of the other um motives are tied into that to to help the individual move along so you

[00:12:01] can actually motivate him through that perspective um the desire for self preservation primarily

[00:12:06] of life but self preservation for the way they live the way they act the way they behave everything

[00:12:10] else um the desire for freedom of body and mind the desire for self expression the desire

[00:12:18] for perpetuation of life after death so what what what carries on after they're gone um

[00:12:26] Jack I forget I forget the detail there is that like legacy or is there something more spiritual

[00:12:32] involved in that uh it's it's a little bit of both it's it's primarily it's primarily legacy

[00:12:37] and what they leave behind and the the caveat there is you have to figure out if that's legacy for

[00:12:43] just them and their family and kind of their own little unit that they want to leave something behind

[00:12:48] for their their kin so to speak or if that's legacy like Andrew Carnegie he was at a point where his

[00:12:53] legacy he wanted to leave behind literally um hundreds of millions he took his entire wealth he was

[00:13:00] arguably one of the wealthiest people in the world and gave it all away I mean there was very little

[00:13:05] left by the time he actually passed and he felt like that was a calling of his um and one of the ways

[00:13:11] he did that actually was through libraries because he's like I as a young man there's so many

[00:13:17] libraries named after him you you can go anywhere in this country and you can find something related

[00:13:22] to his name associated with learning or books or libraries or something yeah and his whole reasoning

[00:13:31] behind that which I also found fascinating because Napoleon Hill asked him a question at one point

[00:13:35] he kind of goes into his his motives um there was something that he had actually read about

[00:13:42] the maintaining of wealth and and giving it away and stuff that drove him but one of the things

[00:13:47] that drove him around the library side of things was he was like the opportunity especially in America

[00:13:53] is absolutely insane it's out of this world these weren't his words I'm paraphrasing obviously

[00:13:59] because I don't think he would have said insane or out of this world but um he did say he's like the

[00:14:05] the thing that most people don't realize is there's so much knowledge and so much of

[00:14:09] opportunity out there for those who seek it which is why he created all these libraries because he

[00:14:14] went when he was working at the railroad he was he was working as a young boy um he started

[00:14:19] working at the railroad at like 13 working a boiler um and figured out that um I forget the

[00:14:25] actual term of it but back then it was a telegraphy I think it was where the the messages actually

[00:14:30] came through and someone actually had to write them out um I think yeah tied to the telegraph yeah

[00:14:37] um so he went and learned that skill because he knew that would make him more valuable

[00:14:43] and went and just taught himself by going to the library learning about it trying to apply it

[00:14:47] and then went to someone at the railroad and was like hey I think I could actually do this job

[00:14:51] kind of have an opportunity someone gave him a chance and that was how he made his first kind of

[00:14:56] step up so to speak and then if you want to earn more with a company that that's what you do

[00:15:01] you figure out a way to be more valuable to the company and if you're in the right company

[00:15:07] that should be relatively easy to demonstrate that and be rewarded for it not always but um

[00:15:17] but that's how you earn more money is be more valuable yes and and this is a little bit of a side

[00:15:22] tangent um compared to what we were talking about initially but one of the things that Carnegie

[00:15:26] points out specifically and related to that is that the beauty of competition and the beauty of

[00:15:32] he referred to it commonly as Americanism where we have a free free market enterprise and whatnot

[00:15:37] as he said that you have to be willing to go the extra mile and you have to be willing to put

[00:15:41] in that extra work and know that the company that you're at currently may not be the one that

[00:15:47] actually ends up reciprocating and bringing that value back to you and paying you more and he goes

[00:15:52] but the beauty of competition is that eventually someone will find out that you're a hard worker

[00:15:58] someone will find out about these additional skills these additional benefits you bring

[00:16:02] and they will come and poach you away and he goes and that's part of competition if you don't pay

[00:16:07] your people well someone else will because that's that's the other side of competition is

[00:16:13] you don't even have to be in the same industry but that type of person is so hard to find

[00:16:18] and that was one of the things I found so interesting was he was referencing this back and

[00:16:22] I think the conversation that happened between him and Napoleon Hill was like 1907 1908 somewhere

[00:16:26] in there but he was referencing things that I'm like yeah I've talked to executives at all kinds

[00:16:31] of companies that are sharing the exact same challenges not the same solution but the same challenges

[00:16:37] but people are people and that nature of them they've got different distractions they've

[00:16:43] got different tools but the nature is still there and the same underlying issues are still there

[00:16:54] and you know people are people so those those base motives connecting those to

[00:17:04] what they what you want that what you want that individual to do is what Schwab was really good at

[00:17:13] right I think trying to go back to where we were I think we had seven of those and there were

[00:17:19] nine or ten base motives there's nine because the other the other two are the emotion of anger

[00:17:29] which could be a motivation right getting back at somebody you're leveraging your anger in some way

[00:17:33] and then also the emotion of fear and fear has seven basic fears associated to it you have fear of

[00:17:41] poverty fear of illness fear of loss of love or loss of someone fear of criticism fear of the

[00:17:49] loss of liberty fear of old age and then fear of death those are your seven basic fears those are

[00:17:57] really really based desires and both and avoiding fear I mean we'll do more to avoid fear than we

[00:18:07] will to gain pleasure that if you're looking at them as fulcrums or leverage points those connecting

[00:18:15] a positive and a negative to the same same situation a carrot and a stick you can avoid this by doing

[00:18:22] and you can gain this if you do these things yes sort of a simplistic version of it so Schwab was

[00:18:30] really good at connecting those dots and reading that in people before there were any

[00:18:37] real assessments and tools yeah you listen and talk to the way Carnegie described Schwab was

[00:18:46] that he was so good innately with people his upbringing and who he was around and whatever just

[00:18:53] just built that into him to the point that he knew how to motivate people like you wouldn't believe

[00:18:59] and I think Schwab is the one that the story is told around of a it's a pretty famous story

[00:19:06] so it may have not it may not have been Schwab but I'm pretty sure it was Schwab of the factory workers

[00:19:11] where he came in one day and wrote the number on the floor you know the story yeah that was I'm

[00:19:15] pretty sure that was Schwab yeah um and he just knew how to motivate people he knew how to get

[00:19:22] that drive of competition going and knew that there was a an emotion that he could elicit there was one

[00:19:29] of those motives that he could drive and just had figured it out and that was one of the things

[00:19:36] that Carnegie pointed out as he's like I literally could one of the reasons I was willing to pay Schwab

[00:19:41] as much as I was was because I didn't want him working for any type of competitor in any industry

[00:19:46] or whatever because I knew if I had a problem in a plant he didn't need to know he didn't need

[00:19:51] to have any experience with the plant whatsoever I could just say hey Charlie we need this problem fix

[00:19:55] Nego got it and he would just go get it fixed so that that level of capability is something that he

[00:20:04] developed by understanding these things and I think it comes back to if we go back to the very

[00:20:09] beginning of the conversation understanding what the values are of the company and building those

[00:20:14] in and then understanding do we have alignment with the individual on the actual values and then

[00:20:20] what emotion what base motive can we work through to actually help to drive them through that there's

[00:20:27] a lot of companies that put their core values on the wall right they put posters up they put stickers

[00:20:35] up whatever and they talk about them but when it when push comes to Schwab are they living them

[00:20:45] and I think that's what you're talking about right are they really are the leaders leading in

[00:20:49] that direction or is it just these sound good these are these are important these are the right

[00:20:55] values but are we are we demonstrating and living that and you know I can think of just with clients

[00:21:02] that I've had over the last five or six years that it's it's it's rare to see somebody who says those

[00:21:12] are our values and we live those values by doing this this this and this and it's a continuous thing

[00:21:20] and and then there's a there's more that they look good they're important but they don't

[00:21:27] live it every day and and I know one company that let a let a good salesperson go

[00:21:34] not because of their sales ability or struggles or anything like that they just didn't live one

[00:21:42] of the values that was important and it it was too upsetting to the culture of the company

[00:21:51] and they made the decision that this unacceptable yeah and that message I mean that message

[00:22:00] carries through you know when it's explained you know in leadership meetings and then the managers

[00:22:06] take that to the to the next level and and then the employees talk about that that oh shit they're

[00:22:13] serious about this right it's real so I think that's a really really good takeaway for I know

[00:22:21] the folks that are listening to this that we're if it's not part of the core values maybe you

[00:22:29] can change that maybe you can put that into the organization it takes some time but at least for

[00:22:35] your little group the people you're driving the people you're managing the people you're supporting

[00:22:41] you can you can start to change there and put that at a high level and say we need to be the

[00:22:48] example for the rest of the organization and in the motivation there simply could be if we do

[00:22:56] these things will either be recognized within this organization or some other organization will

[00:23:03] pick us up and you know it there's change about yeah you have to have some trust and confidence in

[00:23:11] yourself um well then do that that's that's one of those things that I think is is a demand or

[00:23:17] call on us as leaders to to step in and do that to set what those bars need to be and to hold people

[00:23:23] accountable to that and then to build our teams around that so when we're hiring when we're

[00:23:29] firing when we're going through all those things when we're building up the team if it's our

[00:23:34] responsibility to lead those teams it's also our responsibility to set those standards and to also know

[00:23:40] that you know growth happens outside of your comfort zone so there's gonna be times where

[00:23:46] um employees aren't gonna be happy about being held to a certain standard they're not gonna

[00:23:50] be happy about being held to a certain value it doesn't mean that they're out of alignment it may

[00:23:55] just mean that they're comfortable and they're going but boss I don't want to I don't want to push

[00:24:00] to that level and we as bosses have to figure out how do we tap into those nine base motives

[00:24:07] which one do we need to pull to figure out how to get them to go you know what I'm willing to go

[00:24:12] outside of that comfort zone I'm willing to try that little extra bit um some people it's you got to

[00:24:16] give them big huge mountains decline because they're motivated by that and others it's you got to

[00:24:20] give them just small little steps that they're gonna they're gonna creep over each day but

[00:24:26] that is the challenge for us as leaders as coaches as as you know whatever you want to refer to us as

[00:24:32] that's that's part of our challenge to go okay in order for me to figure out how to do that I need

[00:24:37] to learn and grow I need to get out of my comfort zone and figure out what drives that person

[00:24:42] you know and I think that's a I think that's part of you know when when when I look at a situation

[00:24:50] where I'm struggling to get a salesperson over the hump or to see something um do I not have

[00:24:59] enough tools in my toolbox it am I not communicating effectively I mean that's the first place I go

[00:25:08] like what am I not doing that I should be doing and then I look at like what is it that's blocking them

[00:25:15] from seeing this as an opportunity um and after you've gone through that for a period of time

[00:25:26] I think the next level and this might be a different conversation but

[00:25:30] you know some people are just gonna refuse to do certain things and

[00:25:37] you we can say well and we're not as good as Charlie Schwab to to to find that motivation or find

[00:25:42] that that right connection um but at some point when when do we really look at that and say

[00:25:50] it mixes on this is on them to to take that next step um because you maybe we as leaders we go more

[00:25:59] than halfway and extend our hand and build the trust in the relationship but I don't know

[00:26:06] that you go all the way across pick them up carry them across the little rope that they're

[00:26:11] they're afraid to go across yeah um because that I don't know if that that always sends the right

[00:26:17] message and it's always safe to do that but right like it might be another conversation

[00:26:22] well I think that comes down to as leaders have we laid that groundwork and foundation

[00:26:30] if we didn't have it laid at the beginning if it wasn't uh understood as part of the standard

[00:26:34] had we given time for people to adjust to that new standard right but once we've done those kinds

[00:26:40] of things um there's a great great book I can I can see you've actually got the first one uh over

[00:26:44] your shoulder extreme ownership that jacke willink wrote and the follow-up book that jacke wrote

[00:26:50] to that is dichotomy leadership because he pointed out okay I just can't I just can't see it from the

[00:26:55] camera um but there's there's so many dichotomies there where it's like you have to take ownership

[00:27:03] but there's also a point where you have to say that hey this I can't literally pick you up and

[00:27:08] carry you I can't do the job for you I can you know whatever or you know you're doing well but now

[00:27:14] we've gotten to the point where I'm unable in my leadership capabilities all on that I don't

[00:27:20] I don't have the skill and ability that Charlie Schwab had to figure out how to motivate just anybody

[00:27:25] we're also at a point though where you're lack of growth your lack of willingness to change your

[00:27:29] lack of willingness to push yourself whatever that is it's starting to actually fall back and hurt

[00:27:33] the team because the rest of the team is looking and going why are we having to push why are we

[00:27:37] having to learn and grow and this person's just sitting over there you know happy as a lark you

[00:27:42] know be in the way that they've always been um if you're not growing your dying is a common phrase

[00:27:47] out there and so it's one of those things of if that's an expectation that's been set and the time

[00:27:53] has been given to adjust to those setting to those expectations if they're if they're new then you

[00:27:58] also have to have the point where it's this is the this is the level of accountability that must be

[00:28:03] maintained in order for the standards to be held yeah and you know jaco talks about that in both

[00:28:10] books that the leader must you know lay the groundwork put the foundation there make connect those dots

[00:28:17] he does it in a different way but there is you know because he's talking about teams right that

[00:28:25] have to work as a team otherwise the team fails and when the team fails in situations he was in

[00:28:34] I mean there's dire consequences life and death consequences um and there's I remember one

[00:28:42] one part of the book where he was he was talking about

[00:28:46] the the team didn't have their radios in the right working order uh I forget the specifics of it

[00:28:54] but he'd lost his shit around that and made them spend time working on getting their radios and

[00:29:02] and he literally had to explain to them how that if they weren't in a training exercise and it was

[00:29:09] a real a real ex a real life um uh what what what did they call the things when they went out to do

[00:29:18] to do a job um that is for mission like if they're on a real mission and with with bad folks

[00:29:26] that not being on the same page would have would have caused total chaos and

[00:29:31] or would have died um but at that point he had to explain it to them and to lay it out

[00:29:38] um but because of all the foundations that were there uh and the expectations that were set

[00:29:45] but i mean you're talking about an organization with him where they're

[00:29:50] it's ingrained in them just to get to go to the training

[00:29:54] to be a seal right and then all throughout that and then you've elevated yourself to have that

[00:30:00] status and then you never stop right they're constantly right they were constantly training to

[00:30:06] get better um and so that's you know he's dealing with he had issues even with those people

[00:30:13] oh wait that elevated to that um so humans are humans we we get comfortable with a certain level

[00:30:23] and then that becomes our homeostasis and then we don't want to move outside of that so

[00:30:31] yeah i mean i think i think this addresses um you know even stronger points that

[00:30:38] um then then i had hoped for it for for for myself and for some of the listeners out there who are

[00:30:45] trying to grow um a team what what they can do to you know from a foundational element and what

[00:30:53] they need to do every day every week every month or recorder uh to support that even when

[00:31:00] the leadership of the company isn't living it right you still can have success

[00:31:07] um it's harder but you still can have success in that uh in that arena so yeah well it's and then

[00:31:14] the base motives are really a really a big part of that yes and it's it's to touch just on that

[00:31:21] last point um i think that's that's one of the things as leaders that we have to protect our teams

[00:31:27] with um and i had some really great examples of this in the Marine Corps and throughout

[00:31:32] my career and whatnot where um we would have guys on the team that would point and go well but

[00:31:39] that team isn't having to do that or they're not having to do this or whatever and they would just say

[00:31:44] that's fine that's them we don't worry about them we worry about us our team our squad

[00:31:48] our unit whatever we focus on us and what we're capable of doing and we're gonna wipe the floor with

[00:31:54] everybody else you know tough um if you've ever watched band of brothers they kind of had that with uh

[00:32:01] um it's the guy from friends i'm blanking on his name right now captain uh sobel um where he pushed

[00:32:09] yeah swimmer uh david swimmer plays captain sobel and sobel in band of brothers he pushed that group

[00:32:15] that um easy company further than anybody else they were well everybody else got weekend passes

[00:32:21] and we're out on liberty they were training and they were running up curhy and everything else well

[00:32:25] when they got into the war they were the the company that was called on constantly to the point

[00:32:31] that they were complaining going wait a minute we've got you know there's a scene where they're like

[00:32:35] we have nine companies why is it that easy company is always at the front and it's like because

[00:32:40] you guys are the ones that can be relied on because you pushed yourselves to that level um

[00:32:45] with the good news is you're the best company in the bad news is you're the best company you're

[00:32:49] on the front exactly if you're a marine you you signed up for that to begin with yeah exactly

[00:32:56] not that they were Marines but um yeah that's part of like to me that's how i look at a sales team

[00:33:03] we we should be better communicators in anybody in the organization

[00:33:08] we should be more competitive than anybody else in the organization our motor should be higher

[00:33:13] than anybody else's and that's okay um we should be leading leading that pack and

[00:33:21] on a regular basis i mean sure you have your days where it's like not

[00:33:26] you don't feel in it and but you still got to go out and do the job um so i think that's uh

[00:33:33] it's a great place to land this uh land this mission if you will um and you know we we covered

[00:33:41] the polian hill karnigee swab jaco all pretty good thinkers

[00:33:50] all pretty good leaders and and you know motivators um i don't know i think they're motivators but

[00:34:03] they were looking for the right buttons to push for the people to be self motivated

[00:34:08] uh-huh um and i think that's what makes a really good motivator is that you point things out

[00:34:14] that that caused them to take the action themselves yeah so um and that's that's one of the things

[00:34:21] that we got to have a pretty robust toolbox um you know as as sales leaders business owners

[00:34:28] coaches military leaders whatever your toolbox has got to be robust because you're always going to

[00:34:34] run into some knucklehead along the way yep 100 percent all right man thanks again as always this was uh

[00:34:43] educational and impactful so thanks outstanding thank you hey thanks for being part of the sales

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