RelationShifts

Emotional clutter can weigh down even the strongest relationships. In this episode, we break down how it shows up—and how to start clearing it out for good. If you're feeling stuck, burdened, or bitter, this conversation is for you.

’Twas the night before Christmas, and all through the land, Each personality creature had a plan well in hand. The stockings were hung, every detail just right, Each one preparing in their own unique light.

Some relationships don’t break—they just freeze. In this episode, we talk about what it means to recognize a winter season in your relationship and how small shifts in mindset, communication, and effort can bring warmth and life back in.

Gravy, Gratitude, and Ground Rules. In this lighthearted but practical episode, we talk about how to navigate family gatherings with boundaries, grace, and a whole lot more peace this Thanksgiving.

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Being driven isn’t the problem—it’s being unable to stop. In this episode, we explore how the overuse of our strengths can sabotage our well-being, and how managing that “shadow side” leads to healthier, more grounded relationships.

What does Bob Marley have to do with trust? In this episode, we explore how trust is built (and lost), and why choosing curiosity, consistency, and honesty helps us move closer to the bullseye in our most important relationships.

Do you know what gets on my last nerve? It’s when someone has expectations that can never be met. I call it perfectionism. We live in a culture of over achievement. There are consequences for those who put irrational expectations on themselves. Studies show that perfectionist people are more likely ...

I have this weird thing that happens on my phone. I’ll be talking with someone, and suddenly, I hear this strange sound I call “the robot voice.” All I get is static—and just like that, the connection is gone. I know what you're thinking: You probably need a new phone. And you’re right. But as frust...

I love good coffee. My son-in-law has perfected the process of grinding coffee beans and making fresh coffee. He has the whole set up with an espresso machine and all the barista equipment. On our recent visit with him and my daughter, he attempted to teach me how to make excellent coffee. It was a ...

It’s interesting (and a bit scary) how much the parenting landscape has changed, especially when it comes to raising teenagers. There has never been a time when exposure to the violent and vile things of our society has been so prevalent. We have normalized the killing and abuse of mankind. We have ...

Tired of your advice going in one ear and out the other? In this episode, we explore how listening, asking questions, and showing respect—especially as parents—can lead to stronger, more meaningful relationships with the people who matter most.

Stuck in the same old patterns in your relationships? In this episode, we explore why adaptability—not stubbornness—is the key to lasting connection. Learn how making small shifts in your communication and mindset can lead to stronger, healthier relationships. Take the profile test here

It is going to happen. It is inevitable. You are going to disagree with someone you care about. “Really?!? You want me to turn around and go all the way back home (less than a block) so you can get your sunglasses?” My wife and I were trying to get to the airport, and I was frustrated. As I turned a...

One thing I’ve learned over the years is that you can’t predict what will happen during the March Madness basketball tournament. I love filling out brackets and watching the wild, unpredictable games unfold. The same can be said of our relationships—they, too, can be unpredictable and leave us feeli...

It has been over 25 years since this MAD (Make A Difference) journey began. Through all the ups and downs, challenges and victories, our team has persevered, grown, and remained united by one powerful purpose: serving others. This remarkable group of men and women all have one thing in common—they'v...

Just like a well-seasoned Southern cornbread recipe, great relationships have key ingredients that make them fulfilling, effective, and lasting. In this episode, we explore the essential “recipe” for strong connections—learning to speak the emotional language of others, practicing intentional listen...

Ok, can I be honest? I don’t like funerals. I understand the value and think it is the right thing to do to honor someone’s life. I just don’t like the whole flowers, casket, wake, vibe. Recently, I have found myself going to …. you guessed it….funerals. While it was admittedly uncomfortable, I have...

We're re-introducing our podcast RelationShifts (formerly known as Crossing The Line). This podcast is all about how to have thriving, healthy, and powerful relationships personally and professionally. We will provide proven and effective ways that you can begin, develop and grow the important relat...